You’ve been through so much, and yet… you’re still here. This first Dear Self letter is a gentle reminder that your healing is valid, your softness is strength, and your story is still being written. Welcome home to yourself.

For a long time, I thought growth meant leaving behind the version of me that partied, overworked, and searched for love in all the wrong places. So, I changed my name, thinking I had outgrown "Moeluvin." But the truth is, I didn’t outgrow her—I finally understood her. She wasn’t something to erase; she was the foundation of who I am today. She just needed more love. More grace. More patience. And when I embraced her instead of running from her, everything changed. This is the story of how I learned to love every version of myself—and how Haus of Self was born from that journey. 💕