Becoming Her in Real Time: Why This Reset Feels Different

I didn’t expect this reset to hit me like this.
But I’m sitting with myself, and whew… the truth is—I’m tired. Matter fact, I’m EXHAUSTED!
Exhausted in a way that no nap or vacation can fix.

Yes, I’ve been having the time of my life traveling, exploring, staying on the move.
From the outside, it probably looks like I’m thriving—and in many ways, I am.
But beneath all of that?

I need a pause.

Not a “break” so I can do more later.
Not a trendy little “soft life” moment for Instagram.
I need to stop, breathe, and really check in with myself.
Because something is shifting… and I don’t want to miss it.

This reset? It’s not about burning it all down.
It’s about getting quiet enough to hear what’s really next.
Not what looks good.
Not what makes the most money.
Not what keeps me relevant.

But what actually feels like peace.

And the wild part? I feel like I’m becoming the woman I used to pray to be.
Like I’m watching her unfold in real time.
Not perfectly.
Not without messiness or missteps.
But with so much more awareness.

I’m learning that becoming her doesn’t require having it all figured out.
It requires being present enough to choose with intention.
To pause when I need to.
To say, “Actually, I need to sit this one out and reconnect with my spirit.”

This reset feels different…
Or maybe it’s me.
Maybe I’m different now.

Maybe that’s the whole point.

So if you’re walking through a shift too—
If your spirit is whispering, “We need to rest. We need to reevaluate. We need to return to ourselves.”
I see you.

Let this be your permission slip to pause.
To recalibrate.
To release what no longer fits the woman you’re becoming.

We don’t have to rush this next season.
Let’s build it from truth, softness, and soul.

With love,
Moe

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